Words of Welcome Welcome, Bienvenido, Välkommen. We are gathered here today for a very special occasion. To celebrate the love between Angela and Jacob.
I would like to thank all the family, friends and loved ones who were able to make it here today from far and near to witness this union of love. For those of you who were not able to make it today, in person or in spirit, Gloria Arias Valencia de Cousineau, Ernesto Arias, we are thinking of you and feel your presence here on this special day. To Jacobs Father and Brother who are not able to fly to Peru as well.
When I look out into this gathering, I see people who have played a role in each chapter of Angela’s and Jacob’s lives. That role is a piece of the puzzle that makes up the picture of Angela and Jacob. Without that piece you could not complete the picture of Angela and Jacob.
As we sit here, surrounded by family, friends, and loved ones, I am reminded how special this day is for an occasion that I know is not only monumental for Angela and Jacob, but for all of us who are lucky to know and love them as individuals, but even more so as a perfect pairing.
As we all go through life, we experience good times and bad times, happy and sad times, inspiring and challenging times. No time is as sweet as the moment you experience love. The time you meet someone that makes you feel complete. The good times become great times while the bad times become bearable times because you have someone on your side. A partner, a protector and #1 fan. The person with whom you share a bond so special that it transcends normal relationships and becomes something so pure and so wonderful that you can’t imagine spending another day of your life without them. For Angela and Jacob, that happened in 2019. Since then, I have witnessed a growing love and partnership that I know will only continue to grow and stand the test of time. I feel privileged to be here today among all of you as a witness to their commitment to a lifetime of love for one another.
I think I’ve had the good fortune to meet most of you here today at some point or another, but for those of you whom I haven’t met, my name is Sean, and I am a childhood friend of Jacob. As a child I would spend my summers in Sweden. As an only child I would often look to make friends during those summers. One summer I was lucky enough to be introduced to Jacob and his brothers David and Benjamin. Very quickly I became close friends with all of them. I would spend my whole summers as a child with the three of them. As time passed and we grew up we did not see each other as often but our friendships endured. Now as an adult I look on Jacob and his brothers, David and Benjamin, as brothers I never had. We have always been each other’s biggest fans and only wanted the best for each other. When Jacob and Angela asked me to officiate their wedding, I was both honored and humbled to be part of this special day with all of you.
As Angela and Jacob met in Miami, I was only a distant third-party spectator to their developing love. A few months into their relationship Angela and Jacob came to New York while I was there for work. Jacob told me very enthusiastically that he wanted me to meet Angela. At this point I had known Jacob long enough that I knew he wanted to introduce me to someone that was very special to him just by the sound of his voice. I met the two of them for dinner and I remember leaving that dinner thinking that these two had known each other their entire lives instead of just a few months. The smiles, laughs and conversations they shared were those of two soulmates. Since that night I have seen the two of them grow into each other’s lives harmoniously. That brings us here today, a moment a few years in the making, to witness their commitment to one another in front of those they love most.
I wish I could tell you a single story about Angela and Jacob that summarizes their relationship and how they enrich each other’s lives, and the lives of each of us, but the truth is there isn’t one single event that is a good symbol of what they mean to me, to each other, and to all of us. But what I do know is that both care deeply and passionately for each other; they protect each other; they make each other laugh and think outside themselves; that time magically seems to both fly and slow down when they’re together. They help each other in ways that are obvious and unnoticed, but always appreciated.
I wish nothing but happiness and love as they begin this new chapter in life. I wish them that their lifetime together as a team is one of complete contentment; full of those moments that they wish would never end, and that they continue to make one another smile and laugh as they make each of us do.
Before we move on, I would like to give Angela and Jacob the same advice I received the day I got married:
“Angela and Jacob recognize that change is the only constant element in life. Do not fear change but embrace it. Understand your objective realities. Understand the purpose of being married to each other. What matters is you two individuals. The sanctity and blessing of your life, your marriage, your future is in your own hands, and no one else’s. Do not be alarmed with what others may say or think about you. Live your life with inner love and harmony. As long as you have your love for each other nothing else matters.”
I would like to introduce Charles Cousineau, Angela’s brother who will say a few words.
MESSAGE FROM CHARLES
Jacob and Angela would now like to read their vows.
EXCHANGE OF VOWS
Sean: Now let us exchange rings.
These rings are a symbol of infinity, and of your love. When you wear these rings, be reminded of this commitment, and the love you feel for each other.
Jacob, as you place this ring on Angela’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I pledge you my love, now and forever. I give you this ring as a symbol of my love with the pledge to love you today, tomorrow, always, and forever.
Angela, as you place this ring on Jacob’s finger, please repeat after me:
With this ring, I pledge you my love, now and forever. I give you this ring as a symbol of my love with the pledge to love you today, tomorrow, always, and forever.
DECLARATION OF INTENT
Do you, Jacob, take Angela to be your lawfully wedded wife, to live together in matrimony, to love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, to have and to hold from this day forward, as long as you both shall live? I DO.
Do you, Angela, take Jacob to be your lawfully wedded husband, to live together in matrimony, to love her, comfort her, honor and keep her, in sickness and in health, in sorrow and in joy, to have and to hold from this day forward, as long as you both shall live? I DO.
PRONOUNCEMENT
Before these witnesses, you have pledged to be joined in marriage. You have now sealed this pledge with your wedding rings. By the power of your love and commitment to each other, and by the authority vested in me, I now pronounce you husband and wife!